[emergent southeast]

"not all voices are on the westcoast"

    gink (gingk) n. Slang:  An odd or peculiar person.  [Cf. dial. E. gink trick]

take a look around, it's not what you think it is

"PROOF EVOLUTION IS IN FLUX"

  

  

 

 TELL A FRIEND[20.01]

 

all you need do is put your friends email address in the field and hit send - it is send via your email account and we do not get a copy

  

 make $10.00 donation

 

help support us

 

 

Thursday, March 23, 2006

shock evangelism

over the past few days i have been processing an event that was so different for me, it kind of freaked me out. one friday a month we bring in a few bands for a concert at 247connection. we do it because fridays are what we call "the asylum; a safe place for crazy people." it's a time when we open the doors and let the local teens hang out and drink free coffee - and share relationships. this last friday, along with the bands, we had "visitors" across the street, and they were not the friendliest group i had the pleasure of meeting.

they where six men, all over 6' tall, 250lbs between the ages of 30-40. now, i add this because you need to remember that on friday we can get some 100-200 teens coming in and out of any concert we host and this was not exception. these men were from a local missionary baptist church. they desired to "share the gospel" from across the street. their "idea" of the gospel was to shout that all the teens were going to go to hell because they were wearing black and listened to "evil rock music." the teens started to get a bit upset, and they asked if we knoew what was happening and why these men where souting at them. so, me being over 6' and 250lbs, i decided that i would venture across the street to ask why they felt it important to insult the kids. my intention was to invite them over to 247connetion and we could have them speak with the teens without shouting. well, as i got their and introduced myself to them i was shouted down and insulted on levels that would make a truck driver weak in the knees; needless to say they did not want to visit with us. one, even tried to accuse me of "assault" because i touched his arm as he was walking away from me - when i explained that we were a church, and that i was the pastor and all i wanted to do was talk - they continued to shout and called me names i would have never believe would have come from a fellow follower.

this got me thinking, do they truly think people are listening to them? i mean, all the teens kept away from them and the police asked them to move on [they said they were being "oppressed" because they had to keep moving]. all i was able to get from them is a self-righteous drive to prove they were right and everyone else, who thinks different, was wrong. i could not find a single thread of kindness, of humility, or grace, of love, or care in anything they were sharing. they did not desire a conversation, they simply wanted to shout down anyone with a question. being from the southwest, this was new to me - i am sure they are around in the soutwest, but i never ran into anything like it. it is hard for me to understand a monolog when it comes to faith, because i see so many conversations.

i think there is something counter to "sharing good news" by insults and fear. i mean, good news is good, by it's nature - right? as i walked back to 247connection, after being insulted on levels unknown, one of the teens came to me and asked, "why do they hate us so much?" wow, was that a shock. the men thought they were doing good, but the teens saw it as hate. i replied, "i don't think they hate you, they are doing what they think is right. it is not our style, but it is theirs." with that the teen walked away, and as she did i heard her say to her friend, "that is why we like coming here, they don't shout at us."

the idea of "beating people into jesus" is so not where we need to be as a church. jesus loved people, and so should we - we need to love people unconditionally, without shouting at them. when we love, truly love - without placing conditions on that love - people truly desire to know us and our faith. they open the conversation, they seek to know what we believe and they desire to learn from us - but when we shout, we only share how closed we are and how out of touch we are with the needs of people - people need love, not fear.

the funny thing about all this is that several people in the congregation was surprised it took them so long to getting around to doing what they were doing. i tried to get the name of the church they were from, but got noting but "kjakhdfkhsd missionary baptist church." hopefully, i will be able to get it the next time - and i am assured there will be a next time - and i will try to speak with the pastor - and i will post the results of that.

or comment in community

4 Comments:

Blogger Andrew said...

It's sad to see this kind of "evangelism" still going on in the world.

AC

3/25/2006 02:03:00 PM

 

Anonymous Jamie Arpin-Ricci said...

Eager to hear how that goes.

4/18/2006 10:44:00 PM

 

Blogger Mike Morrell said...

Man, that sucks. I had a similar encounter in the mid-sized Southern town where I went to college. The presence of these street preachers felt so opressive...I almost want to say "evil." It was creepy.

Sorry this has to be your introduction to the South... :(

4/24/2006 01:03:00 AM

 

Blogger truevyne said...

If I lived closer, I'd bring my nine year old son to win over these tough guys. He'd politely ask, "Sirs, why are you yelling at those boys and girls? Are you mad at them? Is Jesus MAD at them? I'm not..."

4/27/2006 06:17:00 PM

 

Post a Comment

Links to this post:

Create a Link

<< Home

 

Previous Posts

new dictionary

Reflecting on Alabama Church Fires

"So What Now?" "Uh, I Guess We'll Go to Church"

alternative worship

a video look

Derek Webb - Mockingbird

Derek Webb - Mockingbird

marry christmas

some questions:

the curve

--------------------

    

blog-buds and links

andrewjones

andrewcareaga

-------------------------

connectionchurch

charliewear

coolchurches

-------------------------

dougpagitt

danfarrell

-------------------------

emergentevolution

emergentsoutheast

-------------------------

faithmaps

-------------------------

jordoncooper

jasonclark

johnwillis

jonnybaker

johnbrimacombe

-------------------------

keithgiles

karenward

kevinhartwig

-------------------------

lenhjalmarson

lifefaithcontact

littlebitsandpieces

liquidlevi

liquidthinking

-------------------------

next-wave

noguarantees

-------------------------

o'keefefamily

ourgreenroom

oozeblog

-------------------------

praxisstudy

planetemergent

pacifichighlander

-------------------------

sakamuyo

submergence

stephenshields

smallritual

simplepilgrimage

-------------------------

toddhunter

theyblinked

tonyjones

thejourney

thekeeze

-------------------------

wendycooper

-------------------------

moreblogs

link stuff

Site Feed

Who Links Here

--------------------

    

--------------------

    

-

Powered by Blogger

 

 

(c) 2003-2005 ginkworld.net | terms of usage | privacy policy | site search